Humans are truly social beings and to be honest, touch may be one of the most significant actions which make us human. From the time we’re born, children thrive with the physical connection from family members, and in both friendship and romantic relationships, we continue to maintain that connection – with hugs and handshakes, pats on the back, and the act of putting our arms around each another. Nothing can replace the therapeutic power of a hug, of two humans facing each other in an embrace, comforting one or both of them. This type of treatment requires no training, no fees, and no medication. There are no negative side effects and, in fact, there’s a bonus—the person doing the comforting is also touched by the experience.
- Inspires Positivity & Builds Trust
- Physical touch releases oxytocin, called the feel-good hormone
- Strengthens bonding between individuals
- Increases feelings of compassion towards each other
- Reduces Stress & Social Anxiety
- Physical touch increases dopamine and serotonin, hormones which regulate mood
- Dopamine regulates pleasure center in the brain and counters feeling of anxiety
- One university study found that female participants’ stress levels were reduced when they held the hands of their husbands when anticipating physical pain
- Boosts Immune System & Blood Pressure
- Lowers cortisol levels, which suppresses the immune system
- A University of NC study found women who received hugs from their partners had lower blood pressure and heart rates
- Boost in serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin helps boost the immune system and fight off illness
- Improves communication
- As social beings, non-verbal communication is an important part of human relationship
- Human touch is one of the most effective methods to communicate empathy, offering an analgesic effect. We can calm each other with a simple touch, showing that we (on some level) understand their experience, and want to make them feel better.
- Mental Longevity/Prevention of Depression
- Loneliness has been proven to increase the risk of cardiovascular disease, reduce lifespan, and decrease mental abilities in older people
- Loneliness is a leading precursor to depression
At a time when I most needed the human touch, a few months after watching a bomb explode across the street from me and in the early stage of post-traumatic stress disorder, I saw someone with a sign that read: Free Hugs. I walked straight over and got one. Not long after that, I considered being the one holding the sign – putting myself out there to offer hugs to others, as a way for me to get the human touch I somehow knew I needed in my healing. I was not brave enough to do so.
Unlike former Army Ranger Kevin Milligan. He has PTSD and understands what a hug can mean. This past December he began The Unconditional Hug. Standing outside on a cold Chicago day, he gave hugs to anyone who would take one, for over an hour. He explained that a hug is universal, given and received by any age, color, sex, or economic status. He intends to make a difference in the world, and perhaps treat his own PTSD, diagnosed after spending years in Afghanistan, one hug at a time. I so wish I could be there to get one from him!